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Beauty Lies in the Eye of Beholder?


                              The  Ugly  Duckling  in  a        how you look anymore but what you deliver is of
                              Contrast World!!!                 importance to people.
                              The duckling who was a little     Famous  celebrities  from  Hollywood  and
                              different  from  the  others  was   Bollywood have stepped up to voice against this
                              the most beautiful of them all.   voracious act of body shaming. Among those are
                              He  knew  how  to  swim  and      Lady  Gaga  who  shut  body  shamers  with  “I’m
                              instead  of  ‘Craoauk-ing’  he    proud of my body and you should be proud of yours
              Shaltiel Samudre
                              would  quack  more  gracefully    too”.
            than the others. Everyone began to shower him all   Even Sonam Kapoor has elaborated exquisitely the
            their  love  and  affection  and  were  fond  of  his   need to bust the myth of looking flawless in her
            different appearance. He lived happily with them    essay. She has discussed many insecurities she had
            throughout his life, thus being the only swan in the   which led her to be a plastic self in front of the
            flock of ducks.                                      camera; but with her sister Rhea and her make-up
            This  would  never  have  any  meaning  in  the  true   artist Namrata, she did come out of the plastic self
            world which saw the ugly duckling face hardships    and took efforts to be real, real Sonam Kapoor. As
            before becoming one of the most beautiful swan.     she said, “Pursue prettiness for yourself, by your
            As truly said by Khalil Gibran, “Beauty is not in   own  definitions-  not  to  meet  culturally  preset
            the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” In today’s   notions of flawless as flawlessness is a dangerous,
            world,  beauty  is  all  about  being  attractive  in   high-budget myth and it’s time we shattered it”;
            appearance  and  self-obsessed  about  having  an   says a lot in itself that beauty has become a lifestyle
            upper hand on the screen. It’s a dynamic tool used to   rather being just an adjective.
            captivate perceptions and is in advantage of being a   “ People are like stained-glass windows. They
            superior individual.                                sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when
            A sense of self-belief to achieve success has been   the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed
            linked to the way one appeals to the world. Films in   only if there is a light from within”.
            the recent past have portrayed the necessity to look                        - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
            attractive in order to be successful. This results in a
            fear to be lonely in a quest to gain social acceptance.
            Advertisements to a large extent, have been able to
            convince the youth that fairness is the new beautiful
            and training our mind to do so has left us in a small
            bubble of fake recognition.
            It is this stage where ideologies and perceptions
            begin to hover around young minds and the cruel
            act  of  discrimination  as  well  as  evil  practice  of
            finding  faults  with  those  not  appealing
            commences…

            However, things have been changing lately with all
            celebrities  promoting  beauty  of  the  heart  rather
            than the face as said by Gibran. Movies such as
            Dum Lagake Haisha, Sand Ki Aankh, Bala have
            focussed on the fact that beauty is just an adjective
            used to praise rather than to believe. People have
            been vocal against body shaming and hence, its not





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